I have a decision to make. It's huge. Crazy huge. And I need some help.
SHOULD I CUT MY HAIR???
Not just a trim and thinning out like I normally do. This last time I got my hair did, I got highlights. And it was super exciting. This time, I want to cut it. I mean really cut it. I'm serious. I think. I am not looking to cut it above my shoulder so it wouldn't be THAT short. But still, my hair is two feet long, it could use a good chop.
So. What do I do? For the past 5 years (the approximate duration that I started actually doing my hair), any public mention of cutting/trimming my hair brought on voluminous protests. It makes me feel like Jo March in that part in Little Women when she cuts her hair off to sell and Amy, the youngest, proclaims in shock, "Jo!! Your one beauty!" There have been several occasions where random strangers (women of course) comment on my hair, complement or ask me about what products I use. I find it flattering and kinda fun, mainly because I felt so hair-style-retarded for the majority of my life. I think the years of tom-boy short hair have made me afraid of not having long hair. I have had long hair for a really long time and in roughly the same style.
But, putting aside my long-hair dependence complex, let's look at the basic pros and cons of this decision.
Reasons for getting rid of the long hair:
- It takes FOREVER to do anything to it (straight, curly, wash, comb, etc)
- Is it juvenile? I feel like it's a little juvenile...
- It takes over approximately 1/3 of our bed. Poor Jericho. If I lay down wrong or sit wrong or close the car door too soon, it gets caught and I'm held hostage by my hair.
- I don't feel very "in style"
- Change is good
- If I want to keep highlighting it, it will be cheaper if it's shorter
- Sometimes I feel like Guinevere or some other medieval maiden
- It allows me to be too lazy sometimes
Problems with cutting my hair:
- We've grown emotionally attached
- I have thick, wavy hair and it will take a really great hair stylist to make a shorter style look good
- I'm not entirely sure what I want it to look like once it's cut. My style options are limited and not everything I like is doable for my hair
- I feel cliche cutting my hair post-marriage, like I'm preparing for "mom-hair"
- At times, long hair can be easy (aka "lazy")
- I don't have to work for "beachy curls" when I'm at the beach
- Up-dos are easier with long hair. Not that I ever have up-dos, but if I needed to, I'd like to have the option.
- I often hear from the stylist- not many people can wear long hair, so those that can, should.
This is a serious problem. I need all the help I can get. Should I cut my hair? If so, any suggestions on styles? This is my official year for making huge changes. It's time to change the hair!!